6-year-old daughter invites neighbor's 8-year-old son to eat cake, then tells him there's none left when he arrives, his mom forbids her from talking to him again: ‘I don't want to see her anywhere near my son’

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    AITA for banning our 6yo neighbour from coming over and playing with ourson over a cake?

    At our summer "house" we share a path and a fence with another family that has 2 kids 8m and 6f.
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    The little girl and my son spend a lot of time together as they are close in age and there aren't any other kids around. I'm not the happiest
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    about this as her behaviour is a bit questionable for me, and let's be clear my kid is no angel but I can handle him much easier when it's just the 2 of us compared to when she's around.
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    Last month it was our son's birthday and we just told them hey tomorrow son will have a party you can send kids over to play and have
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    some cake. Turns out on the same day they were celebrating her little cousin's birthday so she ended up only coming around later in the evening when everyone
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    else was gone. Either way we served her as any other guest. Yesterday we decided to come to our summer house with my parents for some
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    impromptu BBQ and it turns out the little girl was having a birthday party. She came over and invited son over and he went there played a little and returned to eat with us then
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    went and played with the girl and her friends for a little bit before returning again to play in our pool, and to have walk with me and my mother during which he got wet.
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    While returning from the walk the girl yelled out his name telling him to come over for cake.
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    He changed his shorts and my mom took him to their place (honestly I was a bit mad at him for sitting in the water 5 minutes after I told him to try not get his shorts
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    wet as we didn't have a change of clothes, but he said he promised her he'll be back for cake, and also because I know he's a social butterfly with not may friends
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    his age). The next thing I heard was my son crying. My mom told me that as soon as they came the girl told him mockingly "You can't have cake now, my mum put it away".
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    I was honestly so livid, I tried to calm my son down, but also told my parents that I don't want to see the girl nor anyone from that family for that matter anywhere near
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    my son or our yard. In the meantime girl came over to tell son "hey, you can come over now, mom cut you a slice of cake". I just told her to go back to her party and to leave him be.
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    My reasoning is: 1. neither her nor her brother were ever told no in our home for food or drinks everything we eat and drink they were always offered
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    2. when she comes over she has 0 boundaries and will open bags of chips and stuff she finds around and eat it 3. already that day she sent my son back to bring her a gift (which
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    we obviously did not have as we didn't even know the birthday was happening) 4. I just in general don't like the way she treats my son and I believe he deserves better friends
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    My mom thinks I'm overreacting because she's just a kid and doesn't know what she's saying, and now that I'm calmer I'm wondering if I am overreacting. So what do you think WIBTA?
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    riontach YTA. You can't set no boundaries or expectations on behavior in your house and then be mad when a child doesn't observe the
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    boundaries you didn't set. By the time your son got there, the cake had been put away. It happens. Punishing a 6 year old over it is a bizarre overreaction.
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    rinPeixes beefing with a 6 year old is crazy
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    EwwDavvidd YTA. Complaining about a 6yo, but not once have you mentioned ever conversing with child's parents about boundaries or appropriate behavior if you have so many concerns.
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    CoverCharacter8179 YTA. Je us. Are you seriously expecting people on the internet to call a 6-year-old girl an a hole because she said "you can't have cake, my mum put it away already"? If this made you so livid that you were trying
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    this made you so livid that you were trying to ban the whole family from your presence, I think you need to get better control of your emotions and take an objective look at your parenting style.
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    This is not even mentioning that they f g fixed the problem! The mom got the cake back out, cut him a slice, and sent the girl back to tell him to come get it! This is unhinged behavior on your part.

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